lundi 6 juillet 2009

zombie movies?

tonight i went out with domo to mcclain's for coffee; we caught up on things while she sipped on a snapple and i on an espresso. some guy bummed a cig and said it was gnarly that i smoke unfiltered cigarettes... who uses the word gnarly these days? i guess this guy does. it was nice to talk to domo again; it's always nice to talk to her.

the thing is, i hang out with so much testosterone that when i get to have a nice conversation with a fellow female, it's.. relaxing, in a way.

on the drive home we were discussing the differences between friendships with males and females. i think both of us agree that it's so much.. simpler and easier to have a friendship with a guy. there's much less complication involved, fewer layers of tension and emotion to work through in order to solidify a relationship. but that trait can also be a negative. i have many guy friends, but very few to whom i can really open up. maybe because they're less complicated, they can't understand my complexities. but with the certain girls that i'm friends with, i'm able to talk about subjects of various depth, things that bother and enlighten me both on the surface and in the deepest reaches of my mind. you can't do that with a lot of guys... not to put any guys down. not at all, but even when i hear two boys talking about serious subjects, they don't discuss it with the same explorative and revealing nature that females talk in...



or maybe everything i just said is bullshit.
*shrug*